
Welcome to ”The Self-Hype Podcast,” hosted by Eli Vazquez – your ultimate destination for unfiltered discussions on dating, love, personal development, and relationships. Get ready for Eli’s No-BS advice, raw talk on love, and empowering insights from expert guests in the dating and personal development sphere. Join us as Eli cuts through the noise, providing practical tips, relatable stories, and transformative wisdom to navigate the modern landscape of love and self-improvement.
Episodes

Thursday Apr 24, 2025
Thursday Apr 24, 2025
This week I sit down with Sarah Welch, a self-experimenting coach and content creator who helps people reconnect with their most authentic selves. She guides individuals through a journey of self-discovery, encouraging them to challenge limiting beliefs, explore new experiences, and embrace their complexity. With a multi-passionate approach, she inspires people to create peace with their past, find joy in the present, and mindfully shape a future that works best for their own individual needs. We unpack A LOT in this episode and I am so freakin for you all to hear and heal with her words and candid conversation on what choosing yourself really looks like.
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Thursday Apr 17, 2025
Why Your Addicted To A Man's Potential And How To Never Date Potential Again
Thursday Apr 17, 2025
Thursday Apr 17, 2025
The one trap I notice with my clients is wanting to find men that are "Projects". Fall for the beginning stages of how they make them feel and then on a never ending question of upgrading the guy in hope they can be more where it really just crashes and burns. Want to save time and teats? Sick of why you keep doing it and want to learn how to stop? We dive into ALL that and more boo boo! Can't wait for you to listen.
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Thursday Apr 10, 2025
Thursday Apr 10, 2025
This week I sit down Alexia Del Valle is a Puerto Rican content creator who keeps it real with funny, relatable takes on dating, culture, and everyday life. She’s all about blending humor with storytelling and making her skits both entertaining and authentic. We talk about her early days in creating content, navigating dating as your most authentic and successful self. While sharing some tips in taking up space and paving your own path of success.
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Thursday Mar 27, 2025
Thursday Mar 27, 2025
Black cat energy? Sprinkle sprinkle? Are all these online trends of advice really something you should apply to your life? Eli breaks down how to properly navigate dating advice online while giving practical tips and tricks to own who you are without the BS.
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Thursday Mar 20, 2025
Why Men Move On Quickly After The Breakup And Why It's A Good Thing
Thursday Mar 20, 2025
Thursday Mar 20, 2025
This week on the podcast, Eli breaks down the age old ratchet question of... why do men move on so quickly after the breakup? Where those actions come from on a psychological level, other common traits men do after heartbreak and more. All to give you the tools and reassurance that this is a confirmation to get started on your healing era, right now!
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Thursday Mar 13, 2025
Healing From The Inside Out w/ Dr. Eileen Li
Thursday Mar 13, 2025
Thursday Mar 13, 2025
This week Eli sits down with second-generation licensed acupuncturist, Chinese medicine herbalist, and licensed physical therapist, Dr. Eileen Li. With over a decade of experience in a multitude of personal health and wellness she sits down with us and talks her story of social media fame, practical steps to take for your health and how to conquer anxiety, gut health and so much more!
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Thursday Mar 06, 2025
Community Questions: Cheaters, Avoidants and F*Boys Oh My!
Thursday Mar 06, 2025
Thursday Mar 06, 2025
We are going LIVE! That is right. This week Eli answers real peoples, real questions, all in real time. Where he goes on answers questions on cheaters, avoidant attached men and how to re-gain self-respect after being disrespected and taken advantage of.
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Thursday Feb 27, 2025
Thursday Feb 27, 2025
This week I sit down Ashley from Her Money Mastery who fought her way as a broke single teen mother to a 6-figure net worth through the use of lifestyle-based budgeting, and now has helped thousands of other women do the same. We talk about the importance of finances, empowerment with your money, how to get started in investing and so much more!
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Thursday Feb 20, 2025
The 3 Questions To Ask To Filter Out F*Boys
Thursday Feb 20, 2025
Thursday Feb 20, 2025
This week on the podcast, Eli breaks down the questions to ask in the early stages of dating. Why emotional self-awareness and accountability is so crucial and how not to get caught up in a someone's performative state to win you over. All so you know if he's Mr. Right.
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Thursday Feb 13, 2025
How To Be Your True Self And Stop Overthinking w/ Mindset Coach Jake Mcneill
Thursday Feb 13, 2025
Thursday Feb 13, 2025
This week I talk with former multi-platinum artists manager, creative werido who has helped thousands by his mental models and frameworks to help leverage divergent thinking and maximise potential. We breakdown burnout, how to be your most authentic version of you and how to take chances in life based on curiosity vs. criticism to yourself.
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