Welcome to ”The Self-Hype Podcast,” hosted by Eli Vazquez – your ultimate destination for unfiltered discussions on dating, love, personal development, and relationships. Get ready for Eli’s No-BS advice, raw talk on love, and empowering insights from expert guests in the dating and personal development sphere. Join us as Eli cuts through the noise, providing practical tips, relatable stories, and transformative wisdom to navigate the modern landscape of love and self-improvement.
Episodes
Friday Aug 30, 2024
Friday Aug 30, 2024
Eli Vasquez tackles the concept of "no contact" after a breakup, passionately arguing that it's a necessary step for proper healing rather than an option to reconsider. Eli emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries, blocking ex-partners, and focusing on self-growth to avoid the pitfalls of lingering attachments. Through personal reflections and practical advice, he encourages listeners to embrace the pain of heartbreak as a catalyst for becoming stronger and more self-aware, ultimately leading them to healthier relationships in the future.
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00:00 Cold Open
00:23 Welcome to the Self Hype Podcast
00:52 Eli's Personal Reflections
03:28 The No Contact Rule Explained
05:43 The Importance of Healing
08:16 Setting Boundaries and Moving On
15:08 Special Considerations for Parents
17:10 Final Thoughts
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Thursday Aug 22, 2024
Thursday Aug 22, 2024
Eli dives into the world of overachievers, perfectionists, and people pleasers, welcoming Masha Kay, a nervous system and breathwork coach, as his guest. Masha shares her personal journey from being an actuarial scientist, driven by the need to overachieve, to embracing a path of wellness coaching. She discusses how a life-changing car accident and the realization that her career was unfulfilling led her to reevaluate her life and transition into helping others bridge the gap between where they are and where they want to be. Throughout the episode, Masha emphasizes the importance of understanding the nervous system, healing trauma, and developing a more compassionate approach to personal growth and relationships.
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00:00 Overachieving to Feel Equal
00:35 Welcome to the Self Hype Podcast
02:18 Masha's Journey: From Actuarial Science to Wellness Coaching
05:55 The Turning Point: Car Accident
08:39 The Messy Path to Self-Discovery
17:50 Understanding the Root of Overachieving and People Pleasing
23:11 Masha's Childhood and the Immigrant Experience
33:20 Understanding Executive States
34:24 Nervous System Responses
35:03 Dealing with Conflict
39:12 Rewiring the Nervous System
42:27 Practical Tools for Regulation
50:57 Communicating with Partners
01:00:26 Embracing Flexibility in Growth
01:06:16 Final Thoughts
Masha Kay is a Nervous System and Breathwork + Coach specializing helping you bridge the gap between where you are and where you want to be through gradual and sustainable habit changes, powerful emotional processing and deep inner healing. Her approach, grounded in the principles of psychology, neuroscience and spirituality, helps you quiet the internal battle between your mind, body and nervous system. Masha teaches you to embrace a more peaceful and aligned way of approaching your life, relationships and goals.
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Thursday Aug 15, 2024
Thursday Aug 15, 2024
Eli discusses the phenomenon of ghosting in dating, exploring the reasons behind why people ghost and how to handle it with resilience and self-respect. He emphasizes that ghosting reflects more about the ghoster's character than the recipient's worth, advocating for self-worth and proper closure from such experiences. Eli also tackles how to move forward after being ghosted, urging listeners to see it as an opportunity to affirm their values and expect better treatment, effectively turning the painful experience into a moment of empowerment and self-discovery.
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00:00 Cold Open
00:32 Understanding Ghosting
02:46 Why People Ghost
05:02 Dealing with Ghosting
07:43 Self-Reflection and Moving On
12:20 Empowerment and Self-Worth
23:25 Final Thoughts
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Thursday Aug 08, 2024
Thursday Aug 08, 2024
Eli explores the complex dynamics of returning to a previous relationship, particularly focusing on the psychological aspects of reconciliation. He discusses the common reasons men return and the emotional baggage that might accompany such decisions. Eli advises listeners on how to discern whether a returning partner genuinely seeks to amend the relationship or simply finds it a convenient option. Throughout the segment, Eli emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, the setting of robust boundaries, and the need for clear, honest communication to ensure that any reunion is healthy and sustainable, not just a temporary fix to deeper issues.
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00:00 Is He Seeing Other People?
00:25 Intro
02:02 Trust Issues on First Dates
04:08 Icebreaker Questions for First Dates
06:30 Explaining Your Job to Family
07:39 Finding Personal Peace
11:28 Dealing with Toxic Exes
12:52 Should You Mute Your Ex on Social Media?
13:34 When Persistence is Toxic
14:34 Breadcrumbing and Moving On
17:21 Dating Someone Who's Divorced and Still Friends with Their Ex
19:10 He Keeps You on Socials but Never Reaches Out
19:52 Why Can't I Be the One He Chooses?
21:55 Thanks for Watching!
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Thursday Aug 01, 2024
Thursday Aug 01, 2024
Eli answers community questions, providing candid and insightful advice on various aspects of love, dating, and personal growth. He tackles topics ranging from how to deal with trust issues on first dates to understanding whether someone you're dating is seeing other people. Eli's responses are both humorous and profound, offering practical tips and emotional wisdom to help listeners navigate their romantic lives with confidence and self-awareness. This interactive session reflects Eli's commitment to directly engaging with his audience, making complex topics accessible and relatable.
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00:00 Is He Seeing Other People?
00:25 Intro
02:02 Trust Issues on First Dates
04:08 Icebreaker Questions for First Dates
06:30 Explaining Your Job to Family
07:39 Finding Personal Peace
11:28 Dealing with Toxic Exes
12:52 Should You Mute Your Ex on Social Media?
13:34 When Persistence is Toxic
14:34 Breadcrumbing and Moving On
17:21 Dating Someone Who's Divorced and Still Friends with Their Ex
19:10 He Keeps You on Socials but Never Reaches Out
19:52 Why Can't I Be the One He Chooses?
21:55 Thanks for Watching!
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This podcast was edited using PodShuttle, the fully-remote podcast editing and management service owned and operated by CHOBO Studios. For more info, visit podshuttle.io and follow us on Instagram to see more shows we've helped bring to life.
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Thursday Jul 25, 2024
Thursday Jul 25, 2024
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In Episode 24 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," Eli dives into the nuances of asking the right questions during the dating phase to ensure you're not wasting time and building potential relationships on a solid foundation. He emphasizes the importance of intentionality in questions that probe beyond superficial qualities to understand a person's core values and long-term goals. Eli discusses setting boundaries through these questions, using them as a filtration system to sift through potential partners, ensuring they align with your personal values and lifestyle aspirations.
00:00 Cold Open
00:26 Welcome to the Show
00:58 Asking the Right Questions
02:20 Understanding Your Intentions
05:11 Are You Ready for a Relationship?
08:49 Defining Your Ideal Partner
11:15 Navigating the Dating Scene
13:20 Intentional Communication
19:24 Emotional Intimacy
26:12 Final Thoughts
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Thursday Jul 18, 2024
Thursday Jul 18, 2024
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In Episode 23 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," Eli sits down with Madison Ciccone, a former party girl turned top SoulCycle instructor and motivational coach. Their discussion illuminates Madison's transformative journey from Hollywood's fast-paced nightlife to leading fitness classes and inspiring others through her podcast and coaching. They delve into the profound impact of hitting rock bottom and the pivotal changes it spurred in Madison's life, emphasizing the power of resilience and the importance of embracing one's true self to foster personal growth and meaningful connections. Through her story, Madison inspires listeners to pursue self-discovery and harness the therapeutic power of storytelling and personal expression in overcoming life's challenges.
00:00 Cold Open
00:18 Intro
00:52 From Party Girl to SoulCycle Instructor
04:35 Rock Bottom in LA
09:02 The SoulCycle Opportunity
14:45 Moving to Boston and Embracing Change
19:56 Confidence and Authenticity
23:43 Helping Others
26:54 Embracing Negative Emotions
31:49 Running Your Own Race
41:00 Building a Community
44:30 Madison's Favorite Superheroes
46:58 Where to Follow and Support Madison
48:43 Final Thoughts
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Thursday Jul 11, 2024
Thursday Jul 11, 2024
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In Episode 22 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," Eli Vasquez tackles the topic of long-distance relationships, offering listeners a survival guide based on his own experiences and the advice of those who have successfully maintained such relationships. He discusses the romantic allure and the inherent challenges of being physically apart, emphasizing the importance of setting clear expectations and maintaining regular, meaningful communication. Eli stresses the necessity of having a definitive plan for eventually living in the same location, as without a concrete end goal, long-distance relationships are often unsustainable. The episode provides practical tips for keeping the relationship vibrant and emphasizes the importance of intentional date nights and emotional check-ins to foster closeness despite the distance.
00:00 Cold Open
00:27 Welcome to The Self Hype Podcast
00:56 Eli's Long Distance Experience
03:31 The Hard Truth
07:35 Non-Negotiable Date Nights
10:07 Emotional Check-ins
12:45 Planning Your Next Visit
14:50 Encouragement
16:45 Outro
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Thursday Jul 04, 2024
Thursday Jul 04, 2024
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In Episode 21 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," Eli explores the power of acknowledging and overcoming imposter syndrome with therapist and speaker Adriana Alejandra. They delve into the pressures and mental health stigmas within the BIPOC community, discussing how embracing joy and balancing work and play can combat feelings of inadequacy. The conversation also covers understanding attachment styles and how they affect relationships, providing listeners with strategies to ask the hard questions and address personal mental health challenges effectively. Through her work, including the Latinx Therapy platform, Adriana offers vital resources for mental health support and education, aiming to destigmatize the conversation around mental health issues in the Latinx and broader BIPOC communities.
00:00 Introduction
01:35 Personal Therapy Experiences
02:28 Mental Health Stigmas
05:34 Understanding Attachment Styles
15:33 Imposter Syndrome
23:12 Coping with Anxiety
29:24 Personal Healing Techniques
31:51 Reflective Questions for Growth
34:48 Ambiguous Loss
37:43 Latinx Therapy: A Journey
44:16 The Power of Vulnerability
48:33 Supporting Latinx Therapy
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Thursday Jun 27, 2024
Thursday Jun 27, 2024
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In Episode 20 of "The Self-Hype Podcast," Eli Vasquez shares his personal journey from a self-proclaimed "former F boy" to a personal development coach. He reflects on his past behaviors, the lessons learned, and his transformation into a more self-aware individual. Eli discusses the importance of self-reflection, accountability, and taking proactive steps towards personal growth. He emphasizes the impact of therapy in his life, how it helped him confront his issues, and encouraged self-improvement. Throughout the episode, Eli aims to inspire listeners to embrace their past, seek growth, and pursue a path of healing and betterment.
00:00 Introduction
08:13 The Nerdy Beginnings
12:49 College Life and the Rise of the F-Boy
18:48 The Turning Point: Embracing Self-Help
22:19 Facing the Consequences of Cheating
24:21 Breaking Generational Trauma
35:43 Redefining Relationships
42:33 Turning Pain into Motivation
46:12 Outro
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