
Welcome to ”The Self-Hype Podcast,” hosted by Eli Vazquez – your ultimate destination for unfiltered discussions on dating, love, personal development, and relationships. Get ready for Eli’s No-BS advice, raw talk on love, and empowering insights from expert guests in the dating and personal development sphere. Join us as Eli cuts through the noise, providing practical tips, relatable stories, and transformative wisdom to navigate the modern landscape of love and self-improvement.
Episodes

Thursday Feb 27, 2025
Thursday Feb 27, 2025
This week I sit down Ashley from Her Money Mastery who fought her way as a broke single teen mother to a 6-figure net worth through the use of lifestyle-based budgeting, and now has helped thousands of other women do the same. We talk about the importance of finances, empowerment with your money, how to get started in investing and so much more!
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Thursday Feb 20, 2025
The 3 Questions To Ask To Filter Out F*Boys
Thursday Feb 20, 2025
Thursday Feb 20, 2025
This week on the podcast, Eli breaks down the questions to ask in the early stages of dating. Why emotional self-awareness and accountability is so crucial and how not to get caught up in a someone's performative state to win you over. All so you know if he's Mr. Right.
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Thursday Feb 13, 2025
How To Be Your True Self And Stop Overthinking w/ Mindset Coach Jake Mcneill
Thursday Feb 13, 2025
Thursday Feb 13, 2025
This week I talk with former multi-platinum artists manager, creative werido who has helped thousands by his mental models and frameworks to help leverage divergent thinking and maximise potential. We breakdown burnout, how to be your most authentic version of you and how to take chances in life based on curiosity vs. criticism to yourself.
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Thursday Feb 06, 2025
The Post-Breakup Guide: How To Thrive Being Alone Again
Thursday Feb 06, 2025
Thursday Feb 06, 2025
This week Eli shares about his healing era and what lessons he learned along the way that helped him fall in love with the journey. From how to take accountability, set new boundaries and create intentional memories. He walks you through how to turn your solitude into a home to building a better sense of self and confidence.
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Thursday Jan 30, 2025
The 3 Red Flag To Lookout For When Dating An Avoidant Man
Thursday Jan 30, 2025
Thursday Jan 30, 2025
Eli reflects on his all things avoidant attachment. From early stages of dating, the relationship and more. Using his own personal experiences and examples to hold you accountable in navigating love w/ an avoidant man.
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Thursday Jan 23, 2025
How To Find A Love That Lasts w/ Netflix's Jewish Matchmaking Aleeza Ben Shalom
Thursday Jan 23, 2025
Thursday Jan 23, 2025
This week I sit down with renowned relationship coach and matchmaker Aleeza Ben Shalom, who shot to international fame as the star of Netflix’s Jewish Matchmaking. She is also the host of the “Matchmaker, Matchmaker” podcast. To date, she has successfully helped over 200 people make their way down the aisle, and has trained over 350 matchmakers and coaches. We talk about her latest book, hard truths to dating and so much more!
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Thursday Jan 09, 2025
How To Navigate And Heal Attachment Styles w/ Coach Cybele Safadi
Thursday Jan 09, 2025
Thursday Jan 09, 2025
This week I sit down with attachment and relationship coach Cybele Safadi where we dive into all things attachment, love and her story. We break down her style of content on dissecting pop culture and how it reflect to our every day lives while giving us valuable perspective on healing ourselves and navigating the dating game in the digital era.
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Thursday Jan 02, 2025
How To Create Resolutions To Transform Your Love Life In 2025
Thursday Jan 02, 2025
Thursday Jan 02, 2025
It is our first episode of 2025 and we are starting off strong with what boundaries and non-negotiables to bring into the new year for transforming your life! Eli goes into some hard truth bombs and realizations to how to hold yourself accountable in the new year to create new actions in your resolutions that stick. All to make you have the most abundant 2025 ever!
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Thursday Dec 26, 2024
The Lessons On Love I Learned In 2024
Thursday Dec 26, 2024
Thursday Dec 26, 2024
Eli reflects on his personal healing journey and the upcoming stressors of the TikTok Ban. Eli deep dives on some hard truth bombs while using his real life examples and personal experiences as examples. He shares the fears and vulnerabilities and highlights the importance of self-awareness, emotional accountability, and shedding societal pressures to create a life of fulfillment. Eli encourages listeners to embrace the hardship of self-awareness and the human experience. All to gear you up for 2025!
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Thursday Dec 19, 2024
The 3 Things That Made Me Want To Go From Single Bachelor To Husband
Thursday Dec 19, 2024
Thursday Dec 19, 2024
Eli reflects on his personal journey from being a self-proclaimed bachelor to embracing the idea of settling down and building a meaningful partnership. He shares the fears and vulnerabilities that kept him from committing in the past and highlights the importance of self-awareness, emotional accountability, and shedding societal pressures to create a life of fulfillment. Eli encourages listeners to embrace growth, face their own fears, and stop waiting for someone else to change, emphasizing that true transformation comes from within.
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00:34 Personal Journey: From Bachelor to Husband
01:45 Podcast Evolution and Self-Discovery
04:57 Realizations and Growth
07:50 Commitment and Monogamy
11:50 Facing Fears and Embracing Vulnerability
20:54 Advice for Women: Understanding Men's Journey
30:06 Moving Forward with Confidence
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