
Welcome to ”The Self-Hype Podcast,” hosted by Eli Vazquez – your ultimate destination for unfiltered discussions on dating, love, personal development, and relationships. Get ready for Eli’s No-BS advice, raw talk on love, and empowering insights from expert guests in the dating and personal development sphere. Join us as Eli cuts through the noise, providing practical tips, relatable stories, and transformative wisdom to navigate the modern landscape of love and self-improvement.
Episodes

7 days ago
7 days ago
This week I am cutting the damn BS when it comes to moving on and healing. These are the 3-KEY nitty gritty hard truths everyone needs to know in order to properly move on. I don't hold back on this episode, where in the most loving way, I kick your butt into gear to start doing the work to move on and live your best life!
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Thursday May 08, 2025
How To Awaken Your Most Authentic Self w/ Mindset & Branding Coach Donavan Barrett
Thursday May 08, 2025
Thursday May 08, 2025
This week I sit down with Donavan Barrett, a man who I truly get inspired by through his heartfelt and intentional storytelling online. He has worked with people around the world and served hundreds in helping them tell their most authentic stories to create their own brands from a space of heartfelt intention. We talked all things mental health, dealing with haters and anxiety. Also some really amazing tips in presenting your best self and how that needs to be a non-negotiable either in love or in the workplace.
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Thursday May 01, 2025
The 3 Life Changing Ways To Create An Abundant Life After Heartbreak
Thursday May 01, 2025
Thursday May 01, 2025
I know you're probably hurting, worried and hard to envision a life after your partner. This is the #1 issue I deal with when coaching clients and I have built a system of hard emotional, brain shifting action and roadmapping to not only have an exciting life but an abundant one. I share with you the coaching formula I give all my paid clients for the last 5-years that transform their lives to you - completely free. Whip out the pen and paper for this one because we are getting to work!
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Thursday Apr 24, 2025
Thursday Apr 24, 2025
This week I sit down with Sarah Welch, a self-experimenting coach and content creator who helps people reconnect with their most authentic selves. She guides individuals through a journey of self-discovery, encouraging them to challenge limiting beliefs, explore new experiences, and embrace their complexity. With a multi-passionate approach, she inspires people to create peace with their past, find joy in the present, and mindfully shape a future that works best for their own individual needs. We unpack A LOT in this episode and I am so freakin for you all to hear and heal with her words and candid conversation on what choosing yourself really looks like.
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Thursday Apr 17, 2025
Why Your Addicted To A Man's Potential And How To Never Date Potential Again
Thursday Apr 17, 2025
Thursday Apr 17, 2025
The one trap I notice with my clients is wanting to find men that are "Projects". Fall for the beginning stages of how they make them feel and then on a never ending question of upgrading the guy in hope they can be more where it really just crashes and burns. Want to save time and teats? Sick of why you keep doing it and want to learn how to stop? We dive into ALL that and more boo boo! Can't wait for you to listen.
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Thursday Apr 10, 2025
Thursday Apr 10, 2025
This week I sit down Alexia Del Valle is a Puerto Rican content creator who keeps it real with funny, relatable takes on dating, culture, and everyday life. She’s all about blending humor with storytelling and making her skits both entertaining and authentic. We talk about her early days in creating content, navigating dating as your most authentic and successful self. While sharing some tips in taking up space and paving your own path of success.
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Thursday Mar 27, 2025
Thursday Mar 27, 2025
Black cat energy? Sprinkle sprinkle? Are all these online trends of advice really something you should apply to your life? Eli breaks down how to properly navigate dating advice online while giving practical tips and tricks to own who you are without the BS.
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Thursday Mar 20, 2025
Why Men Move On Quickly After The Breakup And Why It's A Good Thing
Thursday Mar 20, 2025
Thursday Mar 20, 2025
This week on the podcast, Eli breaks down the age old ratchet question of... why do men move on so quickly after the breakup? Where those actions come from on a psychological level, other common traits men do after heartbreak and more. All to give you the tools and reassurance that this is a confirmation to get started on your healing era, right now!
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Thursday Mar 13, 2025
Healing From The Inside Out w/ Dr. Eileen Li
Thursday Mar 13, 2025
Thursday Mar 13, 2025
This week Eli sits down with second-generation licensed acupuncturist, Chinese medicine herbalist, and licensed physical therapist, Dr. Eileen Li. With over a decade of experience in a multitude of personal health and wellness she sits down with us and talks her story of social media fame, practical steps to take for your health and how to conquer anxiety, gut health and so much more!
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Thursday Mar 06, 2025
Community Questions: Cheaters, Avoidants and F*Boys Oh My!
Thursday Mar 06, 2025
Thursday Mar 06, 2025
We are going LIVE! That is right. This week Eli answers real peoples, real questions, all in real time. Where he goes on answers questions on cheaters, avoidant attached men and how to re-gain self-respect after being disrespected and taken advantage of.
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