The Self-Hype Podcast

Why You Should Stop Listening To Dating Advice Online And How To Be Your Most Authentic

Black cat energy? Sprinkle sprinkle? Are all these online trends of advice really something you should apply to your life? Eli breaks down how to properly navigate dating advice online while giving practical tips and tricks to own who you are without the BS. 

 

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Why Men Move On Quickly After The Breakup And Why It's A Good Thing

This week on the podcast, Eli breaks down the age old ratchet question of... why do men move on so quickly after the breakup? Where those actions come from on a psychological level, other common traits men do after heartbreak and more. All to give you the tools and reassurance that this is a confirmation to get started on your healing era, right now!

 

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Healing From The Inside Out w/ Dr. Eileen Li

This week Eli sits down with second-generation licensed acupuncturist, Chinese medicine herbalist, and licensed physical therapist, Dr. Eileen Li. With over a decade of experience in a multitude of personal health and wellness she sits down with us and talks her story of social media fame, practical steps to take for your health and how to conquer anxiety, gut health and so much more! 

 

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Community Questions: Cheaters, Avoidants and F*Boys Oh My!

We are going LIVE! That is right. This week Eli answers real peoples, real questions, all in real time. Where he goes on answers questions on cheaters, avoidant attached men and how to re-gain self-respect after being disrespected and taken advantage of. 

 

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How To Be Financially Independent And Budget Like A Boss w/ Money Mastery Coach Ashley

This week I sit down Ashley from Her Money Mastery who fought her way as a broke single teen mother to a 6-figure net worth through the use of lifestyle-based budgeting, and now has helped thousands of other women do the same. We talk about the importance of finances, empowerment with your money, how to get started in investing and so much more! 

 

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The 3 Questions To Ask To Filter Out F*Boys

This week on the podcast, Eli breaks down the questions to ask in the early stages of dating. Why emotional self-awareness and accountability is so crucial and how not to get caught up in a someone's performative state to win you over. All so you know if he's Mr. Right. 

 

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How To Be Your True Self And Stop Overthinking w/ Mindset Coach Jake Mcneill

This week I talk with former multi-platinum artists manager, creative werido who has helped thousands by his mental models and frameworks to help leverage divergent thinking and maximise potential. We breakdown burnout, how to be your most authentic version of you and how to take chances in life based on curiosity vs. criticism to yourself. 

 

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The Post-Breakup Guide: How To Thrive Being Alone Again

This week Eli shares about his healing era and what lessons he learned along the way that helped him fall in love with the journey. From how to take accountability, set new boundaries and create intentional memories. He walks you through how to turn your solitude into a home to building a better sense of self and confidence. 

 

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The 3 Red Flag To Lookout For When Dating An Avoidant Man

Eli reflects on his all things avoidant attachment. From early stages of dating, the relationship and more. Using his own personal experiences and examples to hold you accountable in navigating love w/ an avoidant man. 

 

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How To Find A Love That Lasts w/ Netflix's Jewish Matchmaking Aleeza Ben Shalom

This week I sit down with renowned relationship coach and matchmaker Aleeza Ben Shalom, who shot to international fame as the star of Netflix’s Jewish Matchmaking. She is also the host of the “Matchmaker, Matchmaker” podcast. To date, she has successfully helped over 200 people make their way down the aisle, and has trained over 350 matchmakers and coaches. We talk about her latest book, hard truths to dating and so much more!

 

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