
Welcome to ”The Self-Hype Podcast,” hosted by Eli Vazquez – your ultimate destination for unfiltered discussions on dating, love, personal development, and relationships. Get ready for Eli’s No-BS advice, raw talk on love, and empowering insights from expert guests in the dating and personal development sphere. Join us as Eli cuts through the noise, providing practical tips, relatable stories, and transformative wisdom to navigate the modern landscape of love and self-improvement.
Episodes

10 hours ago
10 hours ago
In this raw and heartfelt birthday episode of the Self Hype Podcast, Eli Vazquez opens up about his journey with mental health and its profound impact on love and life. Recorded just before his birthday getaway to Orlando, Eli shares how he’s taking a well-deserved break to reflect and celebrate with loved ones. With unfiltered honesty, he dives into the struggles of anxiety, depression, and self-doubt that once consumed him, revealing how facing those dark moments led to creating his transformative brand. Eli challenges the stigma around mental health, emphasizing that your worth isn’t diminished by your struggles—it’s amplified by your resilience. Tune in for an inspiring reminder that you can navigate adversity, seek love, and embrace your enoughness, no matter where you are in your journey. Get ready to feel seen and empowered! 💪
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Thursday Jul 10, 2025
From Combat to Calling: Kristofer Goldsmith on Turning Trauma Into Purpose
Thursday Jul 10, 2025
Thursday Jul 10, 2025
This week Eli we discuss men's mental health and so much more with Kristofer Goldsmith who is a combat veteran, investigative researcher, and nationally recognized expert on disinformation and domestic extremism. He is the founder of Task Force Butler Institute and the On Offense media project, and a co-host of the Find Out Podcast—platforms that use investigative journalism and viral content to expose authoritarian threats and mobilize grassroots action. Goldsmith leverages his voice to normalize progressive values and empower communities targeted by far-right movements. We talk fatherhood, mentorship and how to the hard moments shape your life for the better.
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His Story About Being A Nazi Hunter:
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Thursday Jul 03, 2025
How To Practice Accountability To Transform Your Love Life
Thursday Jul 03, 2025
Thursday Jul 03, 2025
This week we are talking all things accountability! Why it so important, how to create a healthy inner child healing system around your own accountability and why men struggle with it. We dive into the nitty gritty so you can stop venting to your poor friends over and over again - so you can start doing the work of interpersonal healing like a boss!
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Thursday Jun 26, 2025
Why Your Ex Is Toxic, Why It's A Good Thing And So Much More!
Thursday Jun 26, 2025
Thursday Jun 26, 2025
This week we are answering community questions! That is right! We are diving into answering questions about your musty, dusty, rusty man. Cheating, how to heal in ways no one talks about and more!
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Thursday Jun 19, 2025
How To Heal Your Wounds With Money To Find Healthy Partnership w/Lea Landaverde
Thursday Jun 19, 2025
Thursday Jun 19, 2025
This week on the Self-Hype Podcast we dive into how your relationship with money could be holding you back from finding true love. Join Eli Vazquez and Latina wealth activist Lea Landaverde, queer first-gen financial educator and founder of Requeza, as they unpack financial wounds and share strategies to heal money habits, challenge limiting beliefs, and foster empowered partnerships.
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Thursday Jun 12, 2025
How To Communicate With An Emotionally Avoidant Man
Thursday Jun 12, 2025
Thursday Jun 12, 2025
This week we are talking all things communication w/ an avoidant attached partner! I dissect and break down the nitty gritty of how to created regulated spaces of communication in a relationship and how to learn to talk to the opposite attached partner. We break down my story of being avoidant, how I did the work and what worked for me in opening up. So you can apply it to success in your love life!
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Thursday Jun 05, 2025
How To Love Your Body By Resetting Your Nervous System w Giulia Halkier
Thursday Jun 05, 2025
Thursday Jun 05, 2025
This week I sit down with Giulia Halkier. Giulia Halkier is a passionate, no-BS Body Confidence and Food Freedom Coach, educator, speaker, and Master Certified EFT Practitioner who helps women break free from lifelong body shame, diet culture, and unworthiness. Inspired by her own lifelong struggles with body image and food, Giulia now guides others through deep healing using EFT, nervous system regulation, and compassion. Her mission is to help women release toxic conditioning, rebuild self-trust, and step into their most brazen, confident, and unstoppable selves.
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Thursday May 29, 2025
How Healing Your Inner Child Changes Your Love Life
Thursday May 29, 2025
Thursday May 29, 2025
This week we are talking about the inner child. I go into my personal life and talk about my battle with imposter syndrome and how that has impacted my life. Where my inner child comes into my healing, insecurities and how I navigate feeling "enough". We get deep into this one, while ending on a inner child healing meditation so we can start creating a healthier relationship w/ ourselves.
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Thursday May 22, 2025
Your Fertility, Your Hormones, Your Power — Stefanie Adler Breaks It Down
Thursday May 22, 2025
Thursday May 22, 2025
This week I sit down with Stefanie Adler, a Certified Nutrition Consultant (CNC), Functional Diagnostic Nutritionist (FDN), and women’s hormone and fertility expert. As the host of the Wisdom of the Womb podcast and a featured expert in publications like the New York Post, Stefanie is known for her science-backed, no-nonsense approach to health. She helps individuals break free from conventional medicine’s limitations, using functional lab testing, cycle-based solutions, and deep nourishment to restore balance and vitality. Excited for you all check it!
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Thursday May 15, 2025
Why You Can't Move On And 3 Hard Truths To Heal Like A Boss
Thursday May 15, 2025
Thursday May 15, 2025
This week I am cutting the damn BS when it comes to moving on and healing. These are the 3-KEY nitty gritty hard truths everyone needs to know in order to properly move on. I don't hold back on this episode, where in the most loving way, I kick your butt into gear to start doing the work to move on and live your best life!
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